Discreet Dating 101: Maintain Your Online Privacy While Hooking UpYou've already experienced the barrage of sexy single girls hitting you up. You've established some hot and heavy messaging. You know a fantastic night of fucking and sucking is in the bag. But you remain scared. You're timid and reserved. You aren't sure what your next move should be.
You are terrified that you'll be outted. Maybe you have a girlfriend or wife. Maybe you just don't want your local community to be up in your hookup business. In any case, it is reasonable to want to maintain discreet, private hookups.
The good news is, you can, if you follow some simple guidelines.
Don't Connect Social Media
So you've met a hot girl. She is down to fuck. You think it might be easier to message her on Facebook. Or maybe you feel your Facebook profile may impress her. In any case, it's best to remember that Free Adult Dating is a massive hookup site and it should be used for flings and meet and fucks. The moment you take the conversation over to Facebook, your privacy is blown. She will have all your information.
She's probably a great girl. But that's not the point. The point is that you joined a site that helps you protect your privacy while getting laid on the side. If you want to be Facebook friends, you should search for girls on Facebook.
I'm not saying to never become Facebook friends. If the fling goes on for months and you both are comfortable with one another, maybe it's the right move. But certainly it's not the best move to friend her on Facebook because the first night she blew you in the car. She's probably still got your fresh load in her gums when that notification plows through her iPhone.
Plus, you may scare her off if you move to fast. She's on Free Adult Dating because like you, she wants hookup privacy. She doesn't want the entire town to know she fucks random dudes.
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Be Careful With Texting
Like the social media advice before, be cautious with texting. Texting clearly reveals your real phone number. Free Adult Dating never ask you to put in your private number (for a reason). The Free Adult Dating messaging system works great, there is no need to jetison straight to texting.
Keep your side sex wrangled in the appropriate, discreet technology. You'll thank me later.
Don't Be Super Public
I get it, you need to meet her somewhere for drinks. But is your local Applebees the best spot? It might be better to find a mutually agreed upon private place to meet. Sure, maybe you and her want to be in a situation where others are around on the first meet up. That makes sense, safety in hookups is key. But can you not find a dark, dive bar that's a little removed from your local community?
Just use common sense. If your friends and family keep running into you and each time you're sporting a new hookup on your arm, it's bound to raise some red flags.
You Don't Have To Use Your Real Name
At Free Adult Dating, we don't display your real name anywhere on our site. We protect your privacy. But we can't stop you from telling that sexy single your name. Or, leaving your credit card or drivers' license laying about.
If she ask for your real name on the first hookup, that might be a red flag. Sure, first names are fine, but if she needs your last name, she might be snooping online. Keep things anonymous at first. Trust me, anonymous fucking is the absolute best.
Don't Intro Friends
You want to show her that you are the man. You have all these friends. You're a popular bro, the toast of the town.
Relax, take a breath.
Remember that this is a hookup situation. Maybe she'll be the one you fuck daily for years to come and that's great. When that happens, hey, invite her out to meet everyone. But at first, don't fix what's not broken.
Free Adult Dating does everything in it's power to conceal your identity from local hookups. We do this so you can freely pursue sex without worrying about your neighbor finding out, or your girlfriend. But if you give your real phone number of Facebook profile to singles you chat with on our system, we can't stop your identity from being revealed. Be smart and have fun and most of all, remember, this is one of the top singles hookup sites in the world!