Free Adult Dating: A Guide To Online Hookup SuccessSo you've signed up. Or, you're thinking about signing up. You've heard that Free Adult Dating can change your life. You desire a life where you simply plop down on the couch and meet local girls willing to have a good time with a guy just like yourself.
You aren't special. You understand this. You need an experience that is as discreet as it is hot.
But still, you aren't sure how to proceed. Is it really THAT easy to meet a local girl that's willing to fuck on the first night?
The answer is...mostly, so long as you are willing to play by a few rules.
Here's a few of our bigger tips and insights that will help you succeed on one of the Internet's most legendary hookup sites.
Put Yourself Out There
The time has arrived. You've signed up. So now, you wait and eventually the hottest girl in your area will hit you up and want to fuck.
While that MAY happen, your odds for a hookup decrease when you are unwilling to put yourself out there. There is no excuse for lying in wait, you need to take action. I hate to break it to you, but every anonymous survey we've ever conducted about what girls are looking for on this site always reveals that girls love guys who make the first move.
And the better news is that on our app, the experience is discreet so you don't have to worry about being embarrased. No girl on this site wants to 'out you' because lets face it, they are doing the same thing.
Sure, traditional dating rules are out the window on Free Adult Dating, but that doesn't mean some chivalry shouldn't remain. When you see sexy girl profiles you like, message them. Tell them a little about yourself. Comment on how you're new to the site and just now finding your way.
You might be surprised by the results.
Be Discreet, But Not a Complete Mystery
There is nothing wrong with a little enigma. Girls do fancy such things.
But beware, if you seem too much like a character out of True Detective or Unsolved Mysteries, you'll invoke a spirit of caution.
No matter how safe a site is, there are always risk to girls. So every girl will have her guard up at least a little at first. So being bold is better than trying to hide yourself. She needs to know who you are before she meets you. You don't need to give her your home address or social security number (please never do that!!!), but you do need to exchange pictures and plan for the first meeting to be in a public place.
This is just to establish a comfort level between the both of you.
Yes, this is a discreet site, but eventually you will meet up and probably have sex. That's an impossible scenario if you don't know one another. Build trust by revealing/exchanging some information.
Have a Plan
For girls, even in the hookup world, there is nothing worse than a guy without a plan.
I know, this seems silly, aren't you supposed to just meet in a hotel and knock boots?
Sort of. Kind of.
Our research shows that most hookups occur after one initial meeting. Sometimes, right after.
What does all of this mean?
It means you need to have a preset meet up spot. For example, a local coffee shot (fear not, this isn't some Match.com deal). The idea is that you will need to meet and make sure each one of you is truly down to fuck. You want to understand that you can have full trust in the person.
Seems thoughtless doesn't it? Meet at a coffee shop, right? Then after, head to a motel.
Often, it's not so simple. The girl you are chatting it up with may be married and can't just sit with you at a public Starbucks. She also can't be seen dropping into a Motel 6 alongside you. The guys with the highest hookup conversion rates are the ones who understand this and plan for it.
When you are chatting, you'll be able to put forth a plan that makes her comfortable immediately. Otherwise, you leave it to her to come up with the plan and that could take time. During her time trying to figure out how to meet and fuck you, she meets and fucks your neighbor.
The idea is to have several locations that can be both public and discreet for the initial meet up and several places where the hookup will occur.
One tip is to make sure your plan includes not walking in together. This way, she can scope the joint for her husband's pals, or her co-workers. Sit by each other, but NOT BY EACH OTHER. Man, this is sounding a bit mafia-like, but relax, it's all good. You're just protecting her. You're her knight in shinging armour. Hookup chivalry is back and you've got it in spades.
For the hook up place, often a motel is the only option. Be willing to call and put it under your name and give her the room number.
The little things go a long way in discreet hookup success.
Don't Ask Too Many Questions About Her Husband, Boyfriend
It's cool, you care. It's understandable, you want to feel out the odds for your potential hookup. But no need to be super nosy.
Asking her about her dude is only going to make her think about her dude. That's not the goal. The goal is to allow her to do what she intended to do when she signed up for this site: get laid discreetly.
If you keeping asking her "why do you want to have an affair?" she will keep thinking about the fact that she's having an affair. If her fantasy is that of having an affair, she will let you know and then you can talk about it. Otherwise, assume it's off the table to keep reminding her that her busy husband who travels all the time is in the picture at all. The fact that she signed up for this site should be enough to confirm her intentions.
Keep Communications Positive
Do not be a drag, you'll run her off.
Girls want a guy who makes them feel good. Remember, a lot of these girls are looking for an escape from dull, everyday lives. They don't want their side fuck to be the same negative dramas they experience at home. You two aren't getting married, you are fucking. That alone should foster an environment of excitement and fun. If you get tangled up in negative storylines all the time, she will look for another dude that's an escape from you.
Always be her escape and you'll do fine.
Free Adult Dating serves as a portal to achieving your all-time greatest fuck fantasies. But it can't do all the work for you. It's important that you be bold and put yourself out there. Girls looking to fuck discreetly still desire chivalry. Don't be so much of a mystery that they suspect you might be on America's Most Wanted list. Have a hookup plan that includes the initial meet up spot and the place you'll eventually fuck.
Most of all, have fun and keep it loose. Always be positive. You'll be surprised at how much your life truly changes after you take the Free Adult Dating Dive.