Your one nighter suddenly wants a relationship, what now?It was a fantasy come true, right down to the smell of last night's alcohol seeping into your nostrils as you wake up next to a one night stand hottie in a Motel 6. You did it. You used an adult dating app to meet a girl who wanted to fuck you immediately.
And boy, was she hot as hell.
And then you went home. Your wife thinking you were away on that 'business trip.' She seemed suspicious, but not overly so. You played the part like a champ, flowers in hand.
But then, things changed. You hoped your hookup hottie, of course, would keep thinking about you at least a little. You even wanted to make sure that you and her found a way to fuck again (someday). But she went next level. She decided to cling. She found you on Facebook. She sent you messages about how "pretty your wife is." Veiled threats looping through seemingly unstable communications.
So now what?
You don't feel as if you can just tell her to pound sand, she has you by the balls.
So then, what's your move?
I hate to say this, but we told you so...
Nothing is worse than someone telling you "I told you so." But we have. We have guides on keeping your adult dating anonymity while still enjoying the good hookup life. You failed to do that because had you done things right, you most likely wouldn't be in this situation.
As you found out, you can meet a ton of girls ready and willing on Free Adult Dating, but if you don't use our software in best practice, you can also get a clinger.
You should never have given her your Facebook profile link. It was a fail to tell her the neighborhood you live in. It was silly to talk about your wife's job.
You sang like a Canery, now you are paying the price.
But there is hope for you still.
As your non-Attorney friend, here me loud and clear: shut up. Don't talk. Stop communicating.
You will only make things worse. The more you say, the more she has, the less leverage you have.
The very first move you need to make is shutting down communications. Yes, she may blackmail, threaten, and lure, but you need to understand that the more you say, the deeper your hole. So shut it down.
Most likely, she'll move on to another guy that potentially is into clingers.
She ramps up communications..
You've ignored her for two weeks, but she's been relentless. She really, really wants to fuck you again. And of course, you want to fuck her again, but you understand she's capable of an extreme sort of damage to your personal life.
1) Don't fuck her. She showed you who she is, so release her into the wild again. 2) Don't reply. Stay silent.
It's important to understand that you may have to be patient and wait longer than you'd hoped for to rid yourself of an issue YOU created.
Delete your social media
If she has access to your Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, you may need to just delete these accounts. I wouldn't risk just "blocking" or upping privacy settings, a well versed clinger won't let that stop them from diving into your personal life.
By deleting social media, you not only reduce risk that she gains new insights into your life, but you decrease the amount of exposure she has to your pictures and life. This may cause her to move on a little quicker.
Now, you may fear that she will just skirt you and go directly to your wife or girlfriend on Facebook. You could suggest that both of you go "dark on social media." You can find tons of compelling evidence that social media is incredibly unhealthy. In other words, there is a pitch to be made.
Be forward thinking
Sure, you created a bad situation. You underestimated the power of Free Adult Dating. You got super excited when a local hottie fucked your brains out in a dirty motel. So you unloaded feelings on her. You went full girl friend experience.
You've learned your lesson. Keep these lessons close to heart.
Free Adult Dating is a ridiculously great place to meet and fuck. There are 1000's of girls ready and willing, most of which are awesome. But some guys and some girls are just a little off, our algorithm can't always filter those cases out. Follow the rules. Don't give out personal information even if you're receiving the best blowjob of your life. Be smart, and you'll have some of the best fun of your life.